Tuesday, October 04, 2011

Hospital Update: the October edition (no more Dexies)

A Quick Catch-Up:  Since his last scheduled hospital appointment, (when he reported new chest / rib pain) FL has been laid low with a lung infection.  Two weeks later, when he reluctantly dragged himself to the doctor, his GP called an ambulance. He spent one night in the Respiratory Ward with suspected pneumonia on intravenous antibiotics and an oxygen mask, before getting himself sent home for good behaviour.  But he still isn't well.  Nothing like it.  He went back to the GP on Friday for his usual blood tests and came home with another prescription for antibiotics.  On Friday night and Saturday he was complaining about pain in his heart/ lung / chest / rib area and started taking Paracetamol at the maximum recommended dose.  Until the painkillers kicked in, he was telling me he was ready to give up.  This is not FL-like talk!  This is bad!

Friday was a bad day altogether.  His car broke down on the way to the doctor (in town A) and he had to tie the power steering fluid hose up with a shoe-lace to get it to the garage.  At the same time, the school rang him to say that The Girl had burned her arm and needed to go to the Health Centre (in town B) to have it dressed, could he come? Luckily, he didn't have his hearing aid in, so shouted "Pardon?" at them until they gave up and rang me instead (in town C).  Yes, I know -we need to change the "first point of contact" number on the school database - urgently!

On Saturday, I felt like a zombie, with a heavy cold and a migraine.  Some fool overtook me driving up a notorious steep blind summit and nearly got us all killed.  I drove home very slowly and curled up on the sofa with a blankie while FL popped pills.  What a fun family!  Luckily The Girl was at a school friend's birthday outing, so missed the worst of us.

On Sunday I made a skirt and FL read and slept. On Monday I went to work as usual and FL read and slept.

So... here we are on Tuesday, with the regular monthly haematology appointment.

Facts and Figures:
September Freelite results:  Kappa 190; Lamda 10.2; Ratio 18.7
(July results were:  Derived Kappa 257; Ratio 39)
Despite these results being reports of slightly different things (because we saw a different doctor) the overall indication is good, and the Doctor says she considers that FL's Myeloma is "stable".

However....

In July, his immunoglobulin scores were a reason for concern:  IGg was 3.02 (normal range is 6 to 16) and IGa was 0.54 (normal range is 0.8 to 4).  Why we are only hearing about this in October is a question neither of us asked.

The Consultant had left a note on his file that she was going to do some research before deciding whether or not to continue treatment.  However, the results of this research were NOT on the file, and the Consultant was not in the hospital today to, um, consult.

So the Doctor we saw made the decision to prescribe Revlimid (Lenalidomide) without Dexamethasone (steroids) to give his immune system a chance to recover from its recent battering (pneumonia).  Her concern was that otherwise he might need monthly blood transfusions to keep his immune system going and that the myeloma treatment including steroids was making him too weak.  As it was, she had to do some statistical juggling to authorise the Revlimid today because his numbers were on the borderline of acceptable to allow the prescription.

They are sending his blood off for another Freelite test today and are also checking his serum immunoglobulins.  Results available in a month.

So what are we thinking?

It feels like a "safe" decision.  There is no point in killing the Myeloma while killing FL at the same time.  Rather than witholding all treatment, they are taking a middle path, by removing his beloved dexies and leaving him on Revlimid, with another review in a month's time.  In the meantime, he needs to avoid further infection and take it easy... ROFL, as the kids might say.

It will be interesting to see how he feels without dexies.  He has become reliant on his sudden energy burst on a Wednesday / Thursday to "get things done".  I am hopeful that a more even speed will improve his (our) overall quality of life - personally I dread dexy day when he can be hard to reason with and prone to wild plans and projects, prowling around the house all night, then crashing with exhaustion the next day.

We are definitely entering a new phase, which I would describe as a "quiet life" together.  This is absolutely not FL's style, so I predict some difficult conversations along the lines of : "What are you doing with a sick old man like me?"  My only answer is "I am loving you, stupid.  Now shut up and go to sleep."   ; )

15 comments:

Sarahel said...

I've been following your blog for a little while now. It so resonates with me. I'm 3 weeks older than you and my OH has just turned 80. His health problems are very different from FL but so much of the pattern of ups and downs for both of you that you describe echo our experience.

And I love your sewing - seeing your output, and that of other sewing bloggers has inspired me to dig out machine after the best part of 20 years.

So thank you on both counts. Sarahel

tim's wife said...

Roo, Hate to get all doctorish again but have they thought about fungal pneumonia or given him any antivirals? I think dropping the dex is good. Steroids weaken the immune system, but if antibiotics are not kicking this lung infection, it could be CMV or another viral cause, or fungal in cause, re: aspergillosis, which MM'ers are prone to. Antibiotics won't work for these. A follow-up x-ray would be best if he noticed his chest pain worsening too. Hugs to you both. Hope you're feeling better soon and that The Girl's arm is not too serious!!!
Denise

didyoumakethat said...

I am thinking of you and sending you a hug.

Sandy said...

I like that Denise is getting 'doctorish' and thinking of things that could be overlooked when you don't seem to be getting the consults needed for consistency and overview of the symptoms... what is UP with those docs anyhow? They seem to be very casual in their assessments and the numbers are hard to follow by their rankings... not to make you more upset at all, but I agree with Denise that a follow-up X-ray is a good idea. Intending that you are getting some answers this week and that this gives both of you a chance for some peace and quiet...

Steven L. Ritter said...

All I can add is I'm praying for FL and the whole family...

I know you are making the best decisions possible!

Steven

Tanit-Isis said...

No help here, but hugs and hang in there! And I think your response to that hypothetical conversation is absolutely spot on.

Lorna said...

Nothing helpful, but you last paragraph made me think of "I've been loving you too long" by Otis Redding. Do you know it?

sarahel said...

A novice commenter was snagged in her own web and managed to delete the key point - you are all in my heartfelt thoughts. sarahel

christinelaennec said...

Oh poor you! I hope The Girl is recovering, I'm glad you weren't killed by idiotic driver, and I'm AMAZED you were able to make a skirt. Re. your hypothetical conversation, yes! Family really is about for better and for worse. That's the true definition of love. I hope you're able to do something fun for yourself this week, you deserve it. (Whatever happened to those mustard shoes?)

Lorna said...

I thought I'd share Otis with you. http://youtu.be/lTi3bRKohQU

Scruffybadger said...

I don't have the right words, just hugs - & with the help of the internet, I'm sending you loads .... xx

Annie said...

Thank goodness you weren't taken out by the idiot driver! I hope The Girl's arm is on the mend. And healing thoughts to FL. All that and a skirt ... you have amazing reserves of oomph!

Linda C said...

Although this sounds so trite, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Everyday.

I was going to tell you about a pair of shoes I had seen in a catalogue I got in the mail that I think would look very good with your teal skirt. The name of the company is HOTTER and the shoes are a sort of Victorian, or maybe what my granny might have worn, Lace-up, yes, but chic. They come in teal, in addition to 2 blacks and a purple. They lace up and have a little curved heel. I think the name is Mambo.

Also another pair, also, teal- but those are strap shoes. I think I'd covet the Chocolate suede with Bronze metallic trim. Ah, these clever admen - they can make a pair of shoes sound almost mouthwatering!

I hope your daughter's arm is better and your sinus/cold is healing and that FL does not have too hard a time with no steroids. I was on a dose for just a week and had a few days of the wild frantic energy burst when you were too reved up to really get much done- and feeling really shaky, hands trembling. This week I've been too tired to walk across the floor- and come home and collapse, rebound- maybe. Poor guy, Ihope he can feel good enough to enjoy some life.

Linda

The secret word is mustard shoes!

Lizzi said...

you are a very strong lady!

Evie said...

Can I add my hugs and prayers for you both.